Since us Zimbabweans have recently started discussing S#X openly, we can call ourselves almost naive when it comes to knowing anything about the trip to pleasureville. S#X is not what you studied in your biology class back in school or got to know after watching blue movies and videos; real life encounters have far more challenges than you ever thought about. Based on the experiences of few, we list out a couple of things that you MUST avoid to experience an enthralling session!
‘Go with the flow’ is the mantra for an exciting encounter with your partner. Whether you like it or not, just do what your partner feels most comfortable with. Light on or lights off, which positions to try, s#x toys or no s#x toys, just trust the instinct of your partner and let him/her get you going!
Even though it is believed that girls like to build an emotional connect during s#x, but during the deed even they believe in just ‘action’. Talking too much can take away the concentration from feeling the pleasure and the moment you do that, the fun goes away! Few sentences and words here and there are okay to build the connect or put a word of reaffirmation that you are enjoying the act, but anything more than that might falter the spirit.
Though physically you cannot ignore your partner, just ensure you do not ignore the cues from your partner as well. You need to keep acknowledging his/her reactions and tell him/her constantly that they are the only one you will ever need. Compliments can act as a power booster to your play!
It is understandable that you require a wash after you’ve made some passionate love, but if you run immediately to take one, it might send wrong signals to your partner. Body fluids might be irritating, but do not make the situation offensive for the other. Instead, turn it into a ‘shower session’ which will solve both the purposes.
It is not a game and your partner is not your opponent that you need to finish faster than him/her. If you face an issue of premature eja-culation, try to divert your mind (maybe think about your fat neighbour, n@ked), which will help you to ‘hang on’ for long!